What do you think about this?

I'm sorry about your parents' divorce. But I can understand how you feel. After my parents got divorced 2 years ago, my mom moved back to China (she came to the U.S. when she was 17). So I only get to see her once a year now. She's been asking me to go visit her but I don't want to spend my vacation days and money traveling to China since I've been there 3 times before and I don't like China. I also live in New York, so when I miss her a lot I go to Chinatown and go to a restaurant she used to take me. Since your mom's only in Virginia, try to visit her more often. Or find a spot midway (D.C. maybe?) and try to meet there on weekends. Keep in mind that what's important right now is your mom's happy.